Coming Soon: Brenda's Special Garden

Many of you know my wife, Brenda Baynes, and many of you know the challenges that dementia can bring to a family.

What many people don't always see, however, are the moments of kindness, laughter, comfort and love that continue to shine through every day.

That is why I am so proud to share that Brenda's Special Garden will soon be released.

Written by Rebecca Joyce, who cared for Brenda with exceptional compassion, this beautiful children's story has been inspired by our own experiences and helps young readers understand dementia in a gentle and reassuring way.

The wonderful illustrations have been created by my talented great-granddaughter, Evelyn Lockitt, who has brought the story to life so beautifully.

One of my favourite moments in the book comes when Brenda forgets the name of a flower she has loved all her life.

"I can't remember its name."

Later, when young Poppy asks why her grandmother keeps forgetting things, the story offers a simple explanation that many families may recognise:=

One afternoon, their granddaughter Poppy came to visit. She noticed that Grandma Brenda asked the same question three times.

“Grandma,”  Poppy asked quietly,

“Why do you keep forgetting?”

Brenda looked sad.

“I wish I knew”.

Robin knelt beside Poppy and said to her.

“You know how trees lose their leaves in autumn?”

Poppy nodded.

“Well, Grandma's brain is a little bit like a beautiful tree, Poppy.

It still has strong branches full of love, but some of the leaves that hold memories have started drifting away.” said Robin.

“So, she doesn't forget because she wants to?”  Poppy asked.

“Oh no,” Robin said.  “She tries very hard.”

Poppy thought about that.

Then she hugged Brenda tightly.

“I can help you remember.” she said.

Brenda smiled with happy tears in her eyes.



What makes this book special to me is that it doesn't dwell on loss. It focuses on understanding, patience and the importance of helping someone feel safe and loved. As the story unfolds, Poppy learns that helping someone with dementia is not about correcting every forgotten memory, but about being there for them.

The message at the heart of the book is beautifully simple:

"Love."

And perhaps my favourite line of all is one that reflects the promise so many husbands, wives, families and carers quietly make every day:

"I'll remember enough for both of us."

As Chairman of Liverpool Heartbeat, I am also delighted that all proceeds from the book will support the charity's work in helping and inspiring young people across our communities.

My hope is that Brenda's Special Garden will help families start important conversations, offer comfort to those affected by dementia, and remind us all that while memories may sometimes fade, love never does.

Thank you for your support.

Robin Baynes
Chairman, Liverpool Heartbeat

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